We all have a lot of questions.
Broad question: “Do transgender people have particular difficulties with sex?”
Personal question: “I haven’t given birth yet and I already can’t hold my pee, am I the only one?”
Relationship question: “I’ve been with my partner for a while now and our sex life has decreased in quality, what can we do to improve our relationship?”
And a lot of times, this is how our conversations open up:
“Hi, I have a friend who wants to ask you …”
It is a great invention; without this friend, we wouldn’t be having this conversation.
Let’s honor this great friend with a column; we can’t live without them 🙂
I will post questions and my answers in this column (anonymized, obfuscated and redacted, with the asker’s permission) , and sometimes invite colleagues and friends in related fields to answer (e.g. other counselors, sex therapists, academics, lawyers, etc.). Rather than a Q&A, it’s more like a record of our conversations.
I hope this friend can inspire you too!
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