I am honored to be a panelist for this thought-provoking film ‘Het Optreden’. It gave us a chanece to talk about how our culture can be both a solid part of our self-identity and a persistent source of pain.
分类存档：Queer & Relationship Diversity
Interview with polyamorists (1): how could you accept that your partner is in love with someone else
The notion of independence in Dutch culture combined with the traditional Chinese reciprocity brings about a new model of partnership. Sharing the experiences of several individuals, this article emphasizes the importance of informed consent and communication to think more openly about love and connection.
Why not let everyone go to the restroom that fits with the gender on their ID? More on trans people, restrooms and related issues
If the public wants to mandate that “the gender on the ID card is the gender of the restroom”, it is simply not possible to achieve the result of “no muscular men in women’s restrooms”.
In fact, whether one supports toileting according to the gender on one’s ID card or according to one’s gender identity, both will result in cisgender women encountering “muscular men,” either FTMs who are very male-like, MTFs who are not female-like enough, or other groups of people with very masculine gender expressions.
See Ding, seeding 