作者存档: Cheryl Ding
女性主义恋爱指南(一)谈恋爱不在于被爱,而在于权力
去爱吧,情人节快乐
Fwb到底算什么?我和她无话不谈,却不敢说爱——深聊 多重伴侣关系中的名分和需求 | Q&A 006
这段小红书评论区的问答讨论了关于polyam、FWB、以及dating的复杂情感。提问者与一位polyam朋友相处亲密,却对关系的定义和未来发展感到困惑。建议通过真诚沟通探索彼此期望,以找到合适的关系平衡。
为什么施虐造就忠诚的孩子
探讨了父母施虐的根源,分析了父母的脆弱感如何通过贬低孩子来掩饰。施虐可以造就苦难,苦难可以把两个人紧紧连结在一起。因为满足就会向外探索,不安才会紧紧抓住。真正的亲密关系基于双方的自由与独立。
让恋爱这把洛阳铲无情地翻起母婴期的固着吧
探讨了心理学中的“卷入”概念,尤其在亲密关系中的应用,强调了亲密关系是个人成长的渠道。文章通过幽默的方式引入了精神分析的婚礼誓词,鼓励人们在恋爱中面对内心的恐惧与复杂情感,以此实现自我探索和成长。
My vagina can’t fit any finger. Do I need help and will girls mind? | Q&A 002
During sex, you find out that you have a narrowing of the vagina. The purpose of consulting a gynecologist is not to have to undergo treatment, but to learn about possible treatment options so that you can make a more informed decision about what you want to do. Honest communication is vital in sexual behavior, and most people will understand and respect your personal situation. Find a partner with whom you truly have understanding and respect for each other and seek the advice of a sex therapist or counselor.
